Learning Journal 24

In sections this past week we discussed reciprocity. This is a topic that I know nothing about when talking about India. For instance, In America it is polite to follow the lead of the host. The host will invite you to sit down until dinner is ready and then invite you to the table when it is served. You usually remain at the table until the host invites you to sit elsewhere. In return you can invite the family over for dinner at your house, leave them a small personal gift, or bring a dessert to share with the family. It is really important to thank the host for their preparation, food, and time. I imagine that reciprocity would be similar in India, but they may have different customs that I am not familiar with. They may thank the family with different gifts or offer something in return. I could read online about how to properly thank those who have helped you, but I am not sure if it is different for each person. I might not be able to determine what is appropriate for each situation until I specifically ask.